I was all gung ho for the IEP 6 weeks ago. I had all my ducks in a row. All my papers, all my reading. I insisted on an FBA, I insisted on psychology testing through school district. A week ago they were still trying to find a stratagy so difficult child wouldn't be wise on being observed, although he had been somewhat. school district will begin psychological testing this week. IEP may 21st. so much has happened in the past six weeks I just don't have the energy to go. I just feel like giving up. Seems like everyone else just gave up. i don't get answers, Heck...sometimes I don't even hear of what goes on for a week or so later when difficult child tells me, then I have to ask. As much as I asked to see his behavior records/referrals I was told no. they are too busy this time of year. They are busy...I am just to tired to get with it. it is going to be a firing squad..them against me and difficult child. All his teachers will be there from what i understand, plus school district, plus SW. That will be 6 teachers, Spec. ed teacher, VP, Principal, school district, school counselor and SW. I get emails everyday on all the things he does wrong. Now I will have to sit in the same room with all these people having them fire all these statements at me on what he does wrong. (two classes he now has A's in) But it is the behavior. he likes to talk. Flirt.