I am so frustrated and it is only five weeks into the school year. We just recently reached a settlement agreement with the SD in regards to the Due Process that was filed over two years ago. The settlement agreement was initiated by the SD's attorney after the SD's expert pscyhologist witness was deposed and he basically told them what they had done to my daughter was wrong. Part of the settlement agreement is to continue to contract with the child psychologist they had to hire as a part of the due process decision before they appealed that and got it overturned, and we appealed and invoked stay put. She is to be a part of the IEP team and she develops the BIP and she has the final say. This psychologist has also been doing individual therapy with my daughter for two years and knows her pretty well by now. She developed a very good BIP that she and I both felt would work for my daughter, but of course it doesn't work if the school personnel don't follow it. I am becoming more frustrated each day, especially since my daughter has been sent home early four days already this school year. The only thing that gets her sent home early is any act of physical aggression. Because last year it was a problem for the teacher and aide in understanding that making noises isn't a reason to physically remove her from the room which then ultimately does result in her hitting or kicking and then of course getting sent home, this year the psychologist wrote into the BIP the interventions to use when my difficult child first starts to exhibit the extreme anxiety that results in the noises she makes. The teacher or aide has never tried to use one positive intervention and don't seem to know proper CPI techniques to remove her from the room. I just have a problem with my difficult child being sent home four times this year when the only problem she had before they put their hands on her to physically remove her was making more noise in the classroom than they are willing to tolerate. Of course this means they aren't following the BIP that is in the IEP....how do you make them do this? And at what expense to the child before and after the fact. I assume one option is to take them to due process again, but like I said we filed due process in February of 2002 and just finally reached settlement in July of 2004. If this last time wasn't expensive enough and drawn out enough for them to learn that IDEA isn't just something they can follow if they feel like it, then I don't know what I can do. Is an ongoing fight the only option I have to force them to follow the IEP?
mistmouse
mistmouse