We had an IEP meeting yesterday. This meeting has been sought after for 10 years by us. The school sees no behavioral problem and he only acts up at home except for homework and missing work and disorganization. The IEP found him eligible for services and identified him as Learning Disability (LD) in written expression. They however gave him the choice if he wanted to get help and because he is ODD, ADHD and has an anger management problem he said no, he doesn't want to be labeled "Learning Disability (LD) or stupid" his words. So with that the closed the case and found him ineligible for an IEP and that is that. He can still have a 504 but the teachers in the past have not helped with that at all. Any suggestions what to do next? I am sorry if this is so scrambled but it is a bad night and I feel tangental tonight. Thanks for any and all help.