mrscatinthehat
Seussical
Let me start by saying I actually really like my husbands family for the most part. Now that being send who boy am I frustrated tonight.
I am having a candle party on Sunday. With 7 sister in laws I thought maybe a few might be intersted. In addition to some friends and what not. Well my husband just got a call (not even me but him) to say that they were getting together for his moms birthday on that day. Now ordinarily that would sound reasonable however she died almost 4 years ago. Now I am in no place to tell people how to move on or mourn or any of that but really you wait to tell us this at the last minute and she is gone. She most definately wouldn't want them to keep putting their lives on hold. My husband asked me if I was mad after he told me. I said oh yeah. Sorry but I go to all the family stuff. I listen to tons and tons of garbage from this issue to that with them all. I realize I sound selfish but come on. I mean it isn't a matter of life or death about them not coming but really it is the whole thing. I know my house is crappy and I have animals but sheesh. I try and do one nice grown up thing for me with grown ups that isn't sad or depressing and man where is the support. Nada.
Then she informed husband that one of the sisters is in the hospital (psychiatric hospital part). She ahs had many problems over the years but hadn't had any in a really long time. I am grateful they let him know as that doesn't always happen real punctually. So if you could add some prayers for this sister that would be great.
Again I really do normally get along great with his family but they just really annoyed me with this.
beth
I am having a candle party on Sunday. With 7 sister in laws I thought maybe a few might be intersted. In addition to some friends and what not. Well my husband just got a call (not even me but him) to say that they were getting together for his moms birthday on that day. Now ordinarily that would sound reasonable however she died almost 4 years ago. Now I am in no place to tell people how to move on or mourn or any of that but really you wait to tell us this at the last minute and she is gone. She most definately wouldn't want them to keep putting their lives on hold. My husband asked me if I was mad after he told me. I said oh yeah. Sorry but I go to all the family stuff. I listen to tons and tons of garbage from this issue to that with them all. I realize I sound selfish but come on. I mean it isn't a matter of life or death about them not coming but really it is the whole thing. I know my house is crappy and I have animals but sheesh. I try and do one nice grown up thing for me with grown ups that isn't sad or depressing and man where is the support. Nada.
Then she informed husband that one of the sisters is in the hospital (psychiatric hospital part). She ahs had many problems over the years but hadn't had any in a really long time. I am grateful they let him know as that doesn't always happen real punctually. So if you could add some prayers for this sister that would be great.
Again I really do normally get along great with his family but they just really annoyed me with this.
beth