I actually wonder if this isn't a better "spot" for Jabber and I than PE. Drugs, at least pot and "K2-type" smokables, have been on the scene...he loves the herb, no doubt. But I really don't think that's the "problem" with our son. He's very immature, falls for "friends" who are just using him, blows money he needs for bills on stupid things like Magic cards, doesn't hold a job, etc. We've long suspected he's at least mildly aspie...but he won't consent to even a counselor, so we'll never be able to get him tested now. Where living a functional life is concerned, he just doesn't seem to "get it".