husband has been really tired lately. Actually, he's been tired for a long time. I think a lot is due in part to his sleep apnea (he snores a LOT). Then I thought maybe his medications were contributing. (Lamictal before and now Trileptal -- plus Paxil). But this last week was really not normal. He had a busy week before. Then he announced last Saturday he didn't want to do anything but watch TV and he promised to tend to chores on Sunday. But on Sunday, same thing -- watched movies all day. Then he had to go in to work early Monday and Tuesday for phone conferences at 7am both days. Then Wednesday, he decides to work from home and has another 7am conference call, and another one at 9am. Then at 10am he goes back to bed and sleeps until FIVE IN THE AFTERNOON!!!! Then he calls in sick on Thursday and sleeps until 10am when I wake him up because the restoration crew is here to clean the soot off the windows and blinds throughout the house and they need to get into our room. So he gets up and goes to the livingroom to watch TV the rest of the day. I go out to run errands and he calls at 12:30 asking me to bring home lunch. After we eat, my afternoon kicks into high gear with collecting kids from school, homework and sports practices. Then I cook dinner and husband manages to empty the dishwasher and cleans up the dinner dishes (which he rarely does). I leave him to help difficult child 2 with his mountain of homework while I take difficult child 1 to his orchestra concert. When we get back at 9:30pm, they're all watching a movie on TV (at least the homework was done) and no one is ready for bed. Okay, so it just feels like he is slipping into a depressive rut. He says he's not depressed, just feels burned out. He did go back to work today, but he still looks really tired. I want him to go to the GP for a referral for a sleep study. I'm just wondering what else is going on, if anything. His mood has been really even and he's not grumpy or irritable. He may be a bit dissatisfied with a few things right now, but I don't really get why he's sleeping so much. He's got a lot of 1/2 finished projects that are piling up now over the past few months and it's starting to bug me.