It was necessary to hospitalize difficult child on October 27th. I took him to the ER for the psychiatric evaluation and it was my wish that he be admitted to the childrens' psychiatric ward, which he was. He was completely unstable and that was the best outcome we could hope for that he got a bed in the psychiatric hospital closer to our home. First, they put him in under "involuntary status", which I did not agree with and requested it be converted, which is in the works. Papers have already been signed, etc. I don't know why he was admitted this way - and no one can tell me. They said he should not have been processed that way. Secondly, yesterday my Mother got papers for the regional office of mental health asking her to fill out information regarding difficult child's assets, insurance info, etc. I was so upset. There is no reason that my Mom should have received anything for this hospitalization or any other matter. She is listed as our "next of kin" for emergency reasons, but that is it. I called the ER Hospital - they confirmed all of our information, etc. and determined it was not their mistake. I called the psychiatric hospital and they say that it was not their mistake. I have tried to call the State office of mental health, but immediately get a recording to leave my name and number, which I've done twice with no result. The psychiatric hospital social worker said it is a form that is required because the State will pick up the balance of their bill that our insurance might not cover. The thing is - NO ONE can tell me why my MOTHER got it. It is infuriating to me. My Mother and I are very close and she is one of my biggest supporters, but what if she wasn't? What if she did not agree with our handling of the situation and difficult child's care? What if we were estranged? She never should have gotten this document - or any other. I want the problem fixed - obviously there is a glitch in someone's system, but whose? And, how do I go about fixing it? They are so concerned about HIPPA violations and yet . . . I don't want to leave it as is - you never know how this might effect things in the future. Once something is left wrong in the system, it is wrong forever!! Anyone have any advice on this one?