I had posted about my son who lives on the west coast with his girlfriend of almost 6 years. He has suffered from anxiety and depression then self medicated with weed and booze. Got a dui, probation, then sold his car so he doesn't have to worry about another one. The girlfriend is now planning to leave him and take some of their pets which will be very traumatic for him. He will be suicidal like he always is when she tries to break up. This time she isn't coming back. We saw a counselor last night and he recommended we do an intervention with him prior to her leaving. I just spoke to one and she charges $3500 plus if she does any phone calls with us prior to it it is $150 an hour. 25% success rate for rehabs? This makes me feel hopeless. I know I have to let him fall and not be there to rescue him when she leaves. This is my child. So I am supposed to just let him die by suicide? I read so many posts about how alcoholics use that threat to get pity and get what they want but how do I know if he wouldn't follow through. Sorry, just wanted some thoughts, experiences.