Ok Blue help me figure this one out. When oldest son was in the short term psychiatric facility we had our first/last/and only family planning meeting which at that time we told them he was set to go to NC on May 5th and that the doctor said that they were still doing the testing. Which is why they didnt go over the results with us that day. Said they wouldnt be ready for a day or so. Ok so the plan is he will be released on the 4th which will give them time to finish their assessments ect per what our psychiatrist said. Then I go later that evening for our visit with my son only to be told that he had been discharged . I had a fit and asked who discharged him as it wasnt told to us at the time of the family meeting which was held just four hours before. Nor did they call and at least tell me what was going on. They recinded the order and kept him for an additional day when we went and picked him up as they said our INS would probably not pay now. Here is my question. Today I got a letter in the mail addressed to my son, not us, stating that his appeal was denied...I don't remember filing an appeal in the first place. Secondly how can they send this to him as he isn't the insured. husband is. I am not sure what to do about this as we will be changing insurance at the first of the month and it isn't addressed to us. Any ideas??