Thank you all for your thoughts & prayers. husband is still in critical condition. It's been difficult for the tweedles as I can't answer their questions - I don't have the answers because the MDs don't have all the answers.
It's just very iffy.
Thank you again - we can use all the strength we can get right now.
Linda, prayers being said that husband will recover and go into recovery, that you and the tweedles will be okay, and that the doctors. will discover the answers they need.
Wishes for strength and healing headed your way, Linda--for you, for the Tweedles, for husband, and for the medical staff caring for him and your children.