I have been hanging around this forum for awhile and have already learned so much thanks to you many veterans. A brief history -- my difficult child daughter (adopted) is 18 years old. Right after high school graduation, she moved out with her difficult child boyfriend (whom we met at graduation). As of July we kicked her out for good after she stole from us once again. She has ADHD, is bipolar and has Borderline (BPD) tendencies. She is now about 5 months pregnant; difficult child boyfriend has been arrested for domestic violence against her (he was quite drunk); he is out on parole and they are still together. She is now staying with a kind hearted friend of mine. Before all of this chaos, my husband (her dad) and I had committed that we would help her get an apartment if she was attending school. She is registered to start school in January and we have applied for SSI. She only has 2 more weeks about at my friends house and has nowhere else to go. I'm nervous about committing to the apartment but am not sure what else to do with her. I really don't want her to come home. But she is young, pregnant, mentally ill and needs help. Any advice ?