I have been contacted by school that difficult child's VP has recommended placement to and alternative or guidance center. I should not be surprised as VP had made her threat known since last week but in any case I'm reeling with anger and frustration. The school has called an ARD for next week and even though to me there can be no doubt of behavior resulting from disability I'm still scared. Previous ARD experience has been on more friendly terms dealing and implementing changes to help difficult child. I feel completely unprepared and overwhelmed by the possiblity of school being able to remove difficult child. Any advice on what to expect and how to prepare would be greatly appreciated. Also, even though I can't imagine them saying violation not being from disability, if that were to happen how can I challenge or dispute this. I hope someone has some experience on this type of meeting.