I just ordered this CD called insight (www.immrama.com). It is supposed to help with relaxation and stress reduction. I am hoping it will help my difficult child because the neative aspects of her condition are triggered mostly by stress. My cousin does research in this area and found it useful. I thought that some of you with similar problems might want to check it out. I also bought the book recommended by several people on the forum, "The Explosive Child." I think that maybe he has been spying on me. He seems to know my difficult child far too well!