OMG - as you know I have been a nervous wreck, losing it. Scared. this man was absolutely wonderful Went over birth on up. All his issues from his entire life. Asked about husband. Told him all of this. Asked if I knew why he is obsessed with difficult child. I told him his father was a drunk and beat him. died in a car accident when he was a teen. husband once told me he never wanted kids because he never wanted to do to his child what his father did to him. So...he is the complete other side. Gone so far to try not to be like his father that he is out of it. in my opinion Gave test results. He wants EEG results. Says neurologist lood for big things like seizures and such. He looks for different lobe functions. I asked why he can be so intelligent yet lose everything and fail classes. he said because he has a 600 horse power motor and no gas. His functioning isn't there. He will see difficult child next Friday. And wants me to see someone to get myself undercontrol so I can be of some help. His wife. She is also a Special Education teacher who adores children. I see her next Wednesday. they do the neuropsychologist evaluation, family/patient education, family counsoling, marital counsoling. So, as I was leaving I asked what we can do with my husband. He asked if he even would come in. I told him he would. If it would make things better for difficult child he would do anything. Hope it will help US. told him since difficult child was born, easy child and myself no longer existed. And I hurt. And I hurt because nobody cares how hard I work. He put his arm around me and said things will be ok. One step at a time.