Today the kids were playing in our yard. difficult child 2's toy goes flying into the middle of the road and he runs after it; right in front of our neighbor trying to get home. He was very lucky she didn't hit him with her car. He had to stay the rest of the day inside and he was very upset by it. A few days before that difficult child 2 wanted to jump on a different neighbors trampoline. Normally that is ok what they were working in the yard and had stuff on it. He was told to stay out of their yard and he could bounce on it after they were done. A bit later he comes running in tears saying "I just wanted to help." I couldn't get anything else out of him, so I go over to see if he had broken something. My neighbor told me that they had been inside taking a break and difficult child 2 had gotten hurt stepping barefoot on a thorn bush. Her husband had gotten upset with difficult child 2. I don't blame him at all for being upset with difficult child 2. On my way back home I notice that they had even blockaded the entrance to their yard with stuff to try to keep difficult child 2 out. He had to spend the rest of the day inside. So far he hasn't gone over their again without permission, but he keeps asking. The day before that Buster figured out how to go out the front door and was in the street. A different neighbor almost run him over. Right now I'd really like this house to have a big fence. Just so you know all my neighbors are very aware of my kids issues and have even been called in as part of the crises team for difficult child 1. They are great neighbors. difficult child 2 seems intent on pushing his boundaries lately. Trying to use knives, pick up the baby, help neighbors with yard work. But I still have a fight on my hands if I want him to do his regular work.