My son's a gangster, kidnapper , a killer, and maybe more.

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by sweldon, Apr 20, 2019.

  1. sweldon

    sweldon New Member

    I hadn't seen him since he was born and then he came for a visit. I was nervous and was hoping things would go well, for you see I hadn't seen him for 20 years since he first got home from the hospital as anew born baby.
    Now I'm in fear for him and of him. I don't know what to do .
  2. Triedntrue

    Triedntrue Well-Known Member

    Welcome !from the title you have some serious issues with your son. Why are you afraid and why do you say he is a kidnapper and a killer. If that is the case the police need to be involved.
  3. Tired out

    Tired out Active Member

    This is confusing. Has your son come into your life now? Found you through a search, adoption records? Or did family have him?
  4. sweldon

    sweldon New Member

    For 20 years he lived with his mother, and older brother
  5. RN0441

    RN0441 100% better than I was but not at 100% yet

    How did he find you?

    Was he in jail or where has he been and why have you not been in his life?
  6. AppleCori

    AppleCori Well-Known Member

    Hi and welcome, Sweldon

    Is there a way to just quietly fade away and stop talking to him?

    It sounds like you live far away from him and he came for a visit to where you are.

    Maybe just limit your interaction with him.

    Why do you think he is a gangster/killer?
  7. sweldon

    sweldon New Member

    @RN0441 1st my fiancee found him living in another state partially with his mom my ex-wife.
    2nd and 3rd He's been in jail alot , and his mothers family thru me outta the house just after he was born.

    @AppleCori 1st I plan on doing just that at this point and time.
    2nd he came for 1.5 day visit from where he lives.
    3rd HE mentioned thing about what he had done and been affiliated with in his state he lives in.