We have told my 18 year old son repeatedly not to bring pot home and not to smoke it in our home. However, this has happened again. The problem is not as simple as making him leave. He is still in high school and does not have any place to go. I don't know why he continues to do this and the only thing I can decipher is that he is not doing it to be defiant. So why is he? I can't kick my boy out. I suppose this makes me an enabler like my husband says but I don't think throwing him out will help. In fact, I think it will do the opposite. I think it will seal his fate, a fate that will not be good. Anyone else have experience in this? Being a parent stinks.