I have a 7 year old son just diagnosed yesterday with ODD actually much to my relief as we have been to countless therapists and doctors all of them telling me its my parenting or my divorce. My parenting may be an issue but I need tools as I have tried every method of discipline to try and alter behavior. A self centered child who will admit candidly to his bad behavior and blame someone else. He is an angry child and if not given his way you will pay for it for the rest of the day and shows no remorse for his actions. I was told when he was two that is was the terrible twos then at four it was the terrible fours meanwhile the behavior never subsided and now he is seven. I am known as "that boys mom" which cuts me to the core. Now to get much needed advice on helping him to get better and me to learn more about this and how to help him get better. Any suggestions, websites would be great.