My difficult child is 19 year old son. Has recently moved back home after living with my mother for a few months then his aunt for a gew months. He has had several kobs but they never last longer then 3 or 4 months.He has been home for a month now. Not looking for a job. I know he is smokey pot and fear worse. He wont admit it now but doesnt deny it either. His car is still in my name. He is still on our auto insurance.His cell is still on my plan. Yes I pay for that too.Plan to sit him down tomorrow and let him know he is on his own. The people he is hanging around are bad influence. I have two younger teenage children. My husband and I have been married for 21 years . Our difficult child is our biggest worry and we want to helo hom.Buy he appears to just want to be a looser. I worry so much about him. He is very smart but no social skills. Whats a reasonable time frame to give him to find job and be rrsponsible or move out?