The other thread was getting quite long. I talked to her that last 2 nights via text. As if things weren't going hard enough... 2 nights ago her van decided to C*ap out! That's the one they use with the lift for DF. She took to mechanic because it was overheating. He said he didn't think it was really fixable but it was the radiator, maybe water pump and she/he thinks it's leaking out of the block. She's in a very tight spot and needing a vehicle but not in the position to get a new used one at this point in time. The better news is that DF might get to come home tomorrow. Thanks to Mr. Wonderful dr it seems that Df will get medications at home with a nurse to also help. I guess the idea of having to keep him in hospital with a huge bill for 8 weeks stay did the trick! They would much rather pay a smaller amount to do things the right way then the wrong way! To say she is stressed is an understatement! She needs lots of loving and support to help ride this out. I tried giving some ideas as I could for the vehicle situation but at this point in time she truly is in a rock and a hard place.