My difficult child will not answer the cell phone -- would not call me from the real phone before she left her previous living arrangment, she had to be out by 10:00 am on sunday. Has not told me any of "decisions" but I hear about them from others. On Sunday it changed from moving in with a friend on a farm (no vehicle to get to work or school) to moving into a house that another friend had just moved out of --- no furniture, cooking equipment etc. ---- live in a motel --- cost too much --- and the final attempt move in with a friend in a city 6 hours from where she starts school in one week ---- that friend stupididly dropped everything and drove the six hours each way to get her, and she had to leave her bicycle in the town she was living . I know difficult child doesn't believe me that the funding from the Indian Band will not come to her bank account until she starts school. And we (I) set that up as a joint two signature account so that she couldn't do something stupid the minute it comes in. I feel like I know she will disappear in that city withing about 4 days, she'll find some one who will buy her drinks and that will be it. I don't know if I am able to cope with that again. She is not on any medication and will not go for counseling because "(she) doesn't have any problems and its not (her) fault that no one trys to get along with her". When she gets drinking her ideas come fast and furious and she has no clue how to make a decision.