Not been on line lately due to extreme business at work and within our household. difficult child 1 has decided to return to school for Building Maintenance. He signed up (we paid for the class so far, will see if he qualifies for any grants.) and class starts the beginning of March. He holds a sign on the weekends for different businesses. Yes...that's my kiddo whose dressed up like Uncle Sam or holding an apartment complex sign on the corner Surprisingly he loves it. His philosophy is where can you go and act silly, wave at people, smile, and have people honk or smile back at you. (where is that head scratching icon?) Different strokes for different folks keeps running through my head all the time difficult child 2 got into a car accident last friday. He tried to avoid an accident and ended up in a ditch. Trouble was the ditch has a huge piece of concrete in it that tore out the "undercarriage" (too bad I don't look like Jessica Simpson in Dukes of Hazaard saying that word ) Anyway, doofus difficult child 2 wasn't wearing his seatbelt so of course he hit his head on the windshield. He got a CT and has scratches on his head as well as a bruised ego and headache. husband and I are buying a 1999 Saturn from (get this) cousin's exgf's exbf's daughter. (husband jogs with cousin's exgf). That means we'll all be switching around vehicles. The car that difficult child 2 wrecked had been mine and then went through both boys. It was a 1992 Nissan stanza with >180K miles on it. It has done it's job so we bid it a fond adieu. Our intention was to "run it to the ground". I was not intending for the ground to come up and meet it however :wildone: difficult child 1 is not happy that he's not changing vehicles. His exgf has a new boyfriend and that is making him so obnoxious. I'm thinking he's more Borderline (BPD) as his reactions to life's events are so over the top. Nephew #1 is getting married in Seguin Texas in March so I'm headed to a wedding. Will be spending a few days in San Antonio and also Houston. Today I have to take 2days comp time for the days I went to Coral Gables for a work conference. It couldn't have come at a worse time as I've got way too much to do. I'm going to try and see if I can find a dress to wear to the wedding - try some forced relaxation.