StressedM0mma
Active Member
I am so beyond sick of dealing with difficult child. I am just tired. I may be married, but I am doing this all on my own, and I can't do it much longer. I do not know how all of you single parents do it. difficult child has not showered since Sunday morning. Nor has she changed her underwear. She is supposed to be showering today but we leave in 30 minutes and have yet to have the water turn on. I am so tired of the emotional blackmail from her. I know I need to heed my own advice that I have put out here, but man... I am so worn out right now. husband has been a tiny bit of help but nothing to rave about. He has been spending some time with her, but not without me being there.
Thank goodness for our therapist appointment tmrw night. Little does difficult child know it will be with me as well. Normally she goes by herself, and I do not really even talk to therapist. But, I am texting her today to let her know what has been going on.
Well, the shower is on, but we need to leave the house in 20 minutes, and it take her at least that long to shower. Although she "promises" she will be on time. And when I hollered up at her that she was running out of time, I got the "it will be your fault I am late because you keep bothering me" Why is there always transfer of blame.
And, I think she may be losing her cell phone soon. She changed the password on it, and that is a big no no. And I caught her lying about texting which means she is talking to people she shouldn't be. (which would explain the change in behavior lately.)
Thank goodness for our therapist appointment tmrw night. Little does difficult child know it will be with me as well. Normally she goes by herself, and I do not really even talk to therapist. But, I am texting her today to let her know what has been going on.
Well, the shower is on, but we need to leave the house in 20 minutes, and it take her at least that long to shower. Although she "promises" she will be on time. And when I hollered up at her that she was running out of time, I got the "it will be your fault I am late because you keep bothering me" Why is there always transfer of blame.
And, I think she may be losing her cell phone soon. She changed the password on it, and that is a big no no. And I caught her lying about texting which means she is talking to people she shouldn't be. (which would explain the change in behavior lately.)