he seemed shocked at the choices I've made and tries to trivialize what he has done. She found him, he wasn't looking, yada yada yada. He's not willing to take responsibility and he shouldn't have been so honest in telling me what was really going on. So let me get this straight, he wasn't going to leave me, but he got caught, and now he should have denied it so I could just go on not knowing??? I don't think so. Nothing he is saying is showing remorse. He's freaking out because he got caught and knows what he has to lose, but doesn't seem to know how to admit he was wrong. He acted like I was wrong in the decision I was making. I don't know what he thought I would do. Anyway, now I'm here with my dad and he took off hours ago and will probably come home trashed. Again, his choice. I'll fill you all in tomorrow on how the rest of my anniversary evening goes.