There has been an unnerving calm at my home. So calm, I am in denial that it is real... difficult child has not once argued about any response to his request. If I say no to what ever he asks ~ It is okay He quit his job to start another with an old difficult child friend He is making twice the money, but I don't trust the old friend. The friend has moved into a house with his bro and they come and go as they wish. My difficult child is still coming home during the week, but stays there weekends. I caught my difficult child off guard and asked him if his friend still gets high. He said he didn't know what he did. sounds like a yes to me. I don't fault him for wanting a higher paying job. He didn't give his boss a two week notice, which I didn't like, but he said it was his job not mine. I feel like the friend is doing shady things. I just can't put my finger on exactly what it is. Have you ever just had the feeling something is just not right? I have tried to talk to him, but he jumped right in with both feet and now he is with this friend most of the time. I am still just sitting back and waiting for the bomb to go off I guess. I have been in shock recently with his attitude. I think I am having flashbacks from the calm talk we had when he was on coke and I was blind and didn't have a clue. I actually went to bed thinking I was getting through to him and the calmness he was showing was drug induced. I don't know if we have reached a new place or if he is back sliding and has just learned to go with the flow and not cause any problems. Remember, my difficult child is textbook ODD, just never diagnosis'ed it. It is his way or the highway in his mind, but now he is just like easy child (almost) I know others of you have been here, What is going on?