My son just turned 5 and is a holy terror. Last night and tonight he literally tore his room apart, threw his bed upside down and ripped up everything in sight.At times he can be a sweet child but then the devil comes out in him. My boyfriend seems to think I let him get away with everything. I took him to a shrink and they said he was ODD and to suck it up. Anybody got any ideas. This kid is driving me crazy.He hates everybody when he is in this mood. Calls himself stupid and hates himself. Does it get better or worse?