First some history; when ex started to take us to court on a yearly bases my parents sided with him. My father said that he would go to court as ex's witness not mine. Ex picked that time to take us to court because he learned from my family that I was un-employed, husband was un-employed, I had a high-risk pregnancy, and it was 2 months after I got married to husband. I feel so stupid. I've been talking with my mother about difficult child 2 and difficult child 1 and our housing situation/problems and the pregnancy. I felt safe to talk to them because they had moved to TX and I thought all contact between them and ex was over. Ex has been calling them trying to get info about my family. We asked him to stop and of course he says no (and blames me for him calling them.) Now we ask my parents and grandparents (he is calling them as well) to tell us everytime he calls and to tell us what the conversation is about. My mother says she doesn't want us to make this a big deal because she wants to have a good relationship with ex because of difficult child 1 having to go there. She doesn't want difficult child 1 to feel like he is going to a "big scary monster den" alone. She is agreeing to tell us about when he calls though. Her reaction to the next baby wasn't nice either. I'm happy about this baby. I want this baby. I'm frustrated and mad at her.