How do you handle when your DS or daughter have a girl/boyfriend over? What rules do you have? - besides the obvious of not letting them be in his room. I am not being too subtle and I need to get a grip. She is our next door neighbor. She is 13, my son is 14. O.K. I have never been a mom of a 14 year old, but I was one once!! I don't want to embarrass him but I don't want a grandchild yet either. I feel like I am totally blowing this step of "Parenting a teenager". HELP!!!