I just found this site and need help. I'm sorry I don't know all the spcial acronyms. My son is 14.5 and has had intermiittent rages for 2 years. He is on zoloft and abilify. Things have progressed where he is getting more physical towards me. tonite he had me a in headlock for awhile (my head and face still hurt) and he hit me in the face a few times (not fully as he hasn't gotten that brave yet). If i fight back, I think I would get in trouble, right? So, do I just have to take it and wait for him to calm down? What actually happens if you call 911? I am a single parent. His father committed suicide 1.5 years ago (we were divorced at the time). Child threatens to shoot himself just like his dad did if I tell. But then he threatens me to call 911. I'm totaly distraught. I don't know what to do Help?