Tomorrow my 16 year old son will get transferred from Juvenile Detention to a residential treatment center for dual diagnosis treatment mental illness/ drug addiction . His new PO has fought hard to get him help & I’m so thankful . She tried many places but no one would take him due to his anger & violent behavior but she didn’t give up. He will go to a place about 3 hours away from the city which is good so he can’t just take off easily & get back like he’s done before. All I could do now is pray that he will change & take this opportunity seriously.
Helpless,
I am rooting for your so. To make a comeback . He's young and has time to get it together. A lot of people told me that my son, who was 14, would "straighten up" by the time he's 22-25.
That didn't seem real to me. 10 years? Seriously, I didn't think I had it in me, but he did straighten up at 21.
There's hope and I am so happy that you are facing this head on. Letting him go 3 hours away is very wise on your part.
Our best self-care often happens when our children are in jail/rehab/treatment. We can let our guard down, as we know they are well cared for.
I pray that you use this opportunity to have peace and do things you enjoy. It's a rough ride, but you are clearly off to a promising start. Stay strong and keep posting!