is in jail. I found out today. He went to court for his 4th DUI mid Sept., he lost his license for 10 years and is serving a 90 day sentence. I am not telling the kids, it's better they think he's in rehab, it's not like he is writting or calling them or anything. Sigh........... I am very sad, and I think it explains why I have had so much emotional turmoil and weird dreams lately. I think we'll always be emotionally connected to some degree. and the day got better and better, I droppped difficult child I off at the juvenille shelter this evening after a massive intervention with police, counselor and SW today after he went nuclear on me once again. Now I have to miss work 2morrow and be in court in the morning. And the "service engine soon" light is now on in my car!