This is my request to see principal and gym teacher. Today VP called. (he is new, he is the one who got in difficult child's face and accused him of things, lied to both myself and difficult child) I think he is on this power horse and this new job went to his head! VP called telling me to come get difficult child or give permission for him to walk. (2 miles). I said why. He said in gym class he refused to run when teacher told him to. VP said difficult child denied everything she wrote and is argumentative so he is suspending him. He said he wasn't feeling good. He wrote a whole page statement on what happended disagreeing with gym teacher. I got to school and VP said he is lying and that the gym teacher is correct. I stated that I believe the truth my be somewhere in between. difficult child asked if he could go change (had on gym clothes) and VP yelled saying he asked that too many times. I explained to him about what happened on Monday that he is to have an EEG and see a cardiologist. Didn't care. Said if I didn't take him he would make him walk. He then said he didn't have time to discuss this with me he had a meeting and the decision has been made. If I don't take him he'll make it TWO days. difficult child asked if he could go to his locker and VP said no..he will go with. I went with. So, he threatened me last time I was there. And again he threatened to make it two days if we didn't leave. I asked to see the principal and he laughed and said she is in a meeting. I said I would wait. Well, she didn't come back so I made a meeting for tomorrow at 10am with principal and gym teacher. I do not believe difficult child is argumentative. I believe he is standing up for the truth. I told him before I will NOT have difficult child agree to something he didn't do just because he(vp) wants him to. When difficult child DOES do something wrong, he admits to it and talks about how to handle things differently. He informed me as he was laughing that he would make him walk and make it two days unless I left. So..is he going to be responsible if he collapses on the way home? I tried to get ahold of the doctor today for a note for gym. They didn't call back. So, I wrote one. They better accept it. Anyone have advice on how I can handle this with the principal without exploding? I seem to have trouble in this area. When the VP called me he said that difficult child would go to ISS for the remainder of the day unless I came to get him. By the end of our conversation he threatened to have him walk if I didn't come get him. Tonight I looked at the referral and he DID suspend him for two days. He NEVER told me that. I am not waiting for my 10 am meeting. I am going to school with difficult child prior to school and I will WAIT to see the principal. Who can I get to help me??