compassion
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A few days ago, my difficult child's bestfrend who is easy child, 17 never used substances or kissed a boy was talking to my difficult child,15 done all the above and much more . The mom (who is a recoveering substance abuser) was very upset that my difficult child had had sex. Curretnly my difficult child is banned from their homoe and seeing and talking to easy child. Theya re texting. They were also upset as my difficult child is anoucing she wants this boyfriend who is 19. I am concerned too. Many might be all talk. My difficult child goes after stuff taht is dangerous, in my opinion. Last week she annoucned she had a boyfriend and when she told me I said no, friends are fine that is inapproperiate. Two days later she is seeing them as she wen tto the community college where easy child attends school and saw him there even though difficult child was supppossed to be doing her community service at that time. She is goig through pain over this. I am trying to show her that this is a part of her bipolar (ran away ans was not takign medications) and she was dringking and using.
i asked her, what is a boyfiend to you. Her first repsonse was someone to show off. comments/advice welcome.
As her mom, I want her to foucs on being stabilized/sober. She is attracted to situations way,way over her head to deal with.
I try to talk to her but she seems to have in her mind that this is fun, and fine. Thanks for listening and sharing. Compassion
i asked her, what is a boyfiend to you. Her first repsonse was someone to show off. comments/advice welcome.
As her mom, I want her to foucs on being stabilized/sober. She is attracted to situations way,way over her head to deal with.
I try to talk to her but she seems to have in her mind that this is fun, and fine. Thanks for listening and sharing. Compassion