Hello I have a 21 years old child my youngest of 2 who does not have a job or goes to college the problem is I was the same as him at his age and was I supported by my parents in spite of my immaturity and eventually I got my life in order. I got a job and I got married and had 2 beautiful children. One of them is a successful engineer and the other one is me in my young adult years, a person who only wanted to hang out with friends and watch movies and his case playing video games. And now its new years eve and another year had passed and my youngest had not managed anything. I want to force him to make something of himself but I was not I fell in love and got ambitious to impress her and I was 27 then.Actually my career and my job was because I wanted to impress her. What should I do he is only 21 now and it kinda makes me a hypocrite if I force him to make something of him but he disappoints me so much. What goes around comes around I guess this is my punishment for my younger years.