Hi! I'm new here today! I have 2 adopted boys, ages 13 and almost 12. The 13 yr old is easy to handle compared to the 12 year old! The 12 yr old is back in State custody for now, because I could no longer care for him. I needed to get him into a PRTF about 2 yrs ago, and letting the State take over was the only way. He destroyed my apartment from windows to doors, tvs to stereos, knick-knacks to antiques!!!! Anyway, where we are today: He is in a foster home here in town. I have him overnight once a week and all day on Sundays. His behavior is spiraling once again and amidst all that - HE STINKS!!! I can't, nor can his foster parents, get him to shower or brush teeth regularly. diagnosed with everything: Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), PTSD, BiPolar, Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD), MR, every dr. says something different. Any suggestions?