I love my Adult Daughter but she gets on my nerves to the point where I get so frustrated with her. My daughter is an only child and spoilt rotten I couldn't have anymore children unfortunately. I was up visiting her recently and I questioned a decision of hers god forbid I do that and she goes off her brain like I don't have the right to and she told me to leave so I did and it was awful because her daughter had her 1st Birthday the next day but I was so annoyed with her I just loaded up my car that night and left early the next morn and they were all still asleep. I was so sad driving home and still am but I am so over her thinking she can speak to me anyway she sees fit. I will miss my grandkids they live eight hours away and I drive each time to visit three or so times a year but when she told me to leave I left and text her husband to say I was home and that I wouldn't be back for quite awhile if ever that's how annoyed I was with her. I'm over her disrespect and maliciousness she excludes me most of the time and healthily reminds me her husband and kids are her family so my question is then what am I? She can be so nasty but what really upset me enough to leave was she abused me in front of my 8 year old grandson and that was the last straw for me so I left. I feel most unappreciated and sick of all the drama who needs it. I should be able to ask a question without getting abused shouldn't I? I am her mother.