newstart
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We have been covered in snow and ice, no power, no water, broken pipes and very cold. My daughter is concerned for our safety. She calls every 4 hours to make sure we are ok. She asks us to come to her home, she has power and water, we say thank you but no thank you. My daughter's toxic boyfriend is at her house. We tell our daughter that everything is fine, as we are freezing our A's off in the dark and can't drive anywhere since we are iced in. Being at my ice cold home, with broken pipes sitting in front of our log fire is so much less stressful than being at my daughters home with her and her boyfriend. My daughter is very annoyed with us not coming over, she is very concerned and gets in her car and drives over on the ice, she only lives 10 minutes away by car.. She gets into my cold home and sits by the fireplace and brings by some good food. She looks puzzled to why we won't come over. She asks me why and I told her we will not tolerate her toxic boyfriend, she looks at me in complete shock and says well he was ugly to you a while ago, you really hold a grudge, Christian people should not hold that type of grudges. I told her I do not want to experience him in my future and how sad it is that I have a rent home that I can't feel comfortable going to. She said that I just need to get over it, which pushes me over the edge.
We get into a major tiff and she is crying saying how all she did was trying to help us... I would rather sleep under the bridge than to be around those two..
I explained to her that being cold, in the dark with dripping pipes is much less stressful that being around the boyfriend. She looked surprised like she did not know the depth of how deeply we disliked him. I don't hate anyone, I don't wish anyone harm even people that do harm to me, I just don't want them in my life and I don't want to associate or even talk to them. I figure their ugly dispositions is their Karma back to them and I am positive that people with ugly behaviors suffer deeply in all areas of their life by their own nasty behavior so all I have left to do is wish them well.
I was talking to my friend today long distance. She is a mother to an adult bipolar son age 42 that has grieved the H out of her. She admitted to me today that she feels no love for her son anymore. She said the damage and grief he has caused her has wore off any love she feels for him. She said she does not trust him and will not even let him into her house.. I thought about that for a while when I got off the phone. My love for my daughter is so great and mighty.. I truly love her with every fiber of my being... She has harmed me and declared war on me more times than I can count. She lies to me and about me.. And here I am with a heartful of deep love for her.
Has anyone on here lost their love for their child?
I would think it was much easier to blow them off if you have lost the love. How do you get to that point? I watched the Casey Anthony case and her behavior was as wicked at it gets and still her parents love her. She was past the horrible stage yet you can tell in their voices the love is still there.
My friend told me that her life became so much better when the love for her son left her. It was a long process.
I don't even know if I am capable of letting go of that love.
We get into a major tiff and she is crying saying how all she did was trying to help us... I would rather sleep under the bridge than to be around those two..
I explained to her that being cold, in the dark with dripping pipes is much less stressful that being around the boyfriend. She looked surprised like she did not know the depth of how deeply we disliked him. I don't hate anyone, I don't wish anyone harm even people that do harm to me, I just don't want them in my life and I don't want to associate or even talk to them. I figure their ugly dispositions is their Karma back to them and I am positive that people with ugly behaviors suffer deeply in all areas of their life by their own nasty behavior so all I have left to do is wish them well.
I was talking to my friend today long distance. She is a mother to an adult bipolar son age 42 that has grieved the H out of her. She admitted to me today that she feels no love for her son anymore. She said the damage and grief he has caused her has wore off any love she feels for him. She said she does not trust him and will not even let him into her house.. I thought about that for a while when I got off the phone. My love for my daughter is so great and mighty.. I truly love her with every fiber of my being... She has harmed me and declared war on me more times than I can count. She lies to me and about me.. And here I am with a heartful of deep love for her.
Has anyone on here lost their love for their child?
I would think it was much easier to blow them off if you have lost the love. How do you get to that point? I watched the Casey Anthony case and her behavior was as wicked at it gets and still her parents love her. She was past the horrible stage yet you can tell in their voices the love is still there.
My friend told me that her life became so much better when the love for her son left her. It was a long process.
I don't even know if I am capable of letting go of that love.