I really like my condo, it's a 2 story townhouse in So Cal with a back yard with a tented gazebo for bbq, french doors to a small front patio where I have coffee and read the paper, a gas fireplace, roomy kitchen with all new appliances, huge master br with walkin closet and private bath. But I am leaving town to get difficult child away from his "friends" to increase his odds of doing better after he gets out of juvie. I have until 9/19 to get out so I will be shopping hard; hope i find something else that I like as well. I really don't want to leave, I love my dr, my martial arts class, the neighbors.... But if he came back here and got right back in with the same thing and same people then I'd never forgive myself for not at least trying the change in environment for him. I REALLY hope this helps, or else I'm doing all this for nothing I've heard some people say it can help....But I know it's not a magic answer