I am having a rough time still and wanting to name some positive things that are going on in my life because there are a few. Please add your own unexpected or purely positive thing that is going on in yours. Well mr Lewis has grown out of most of his 6m clothes. I found a lady on the ft Carson free cycle Facebook page who gave me a bag of clothes that are free that fit now and will give him a few months of having his butt covered. My husband who has been very lethargic and resistant to getting things done that we need to do, we'll anyway he called child support office in Ohio after receiving a letter stating he owed back child support. His child support comes out of his check and we never see it, we purposely set it up this way on top of the fact that my step children were removed from their mothers care in December and she is no longer receiving or entitled to child support and they have received about 3 grand in child support that has not been given to my in laws who have the twins with them, that they are holding. The lady said not only did he not owe child support they were going to hold his child support until ex wife got custody of The children back or they would refund it if she goes to jail like she should. So possibly they will stop taking child support or they mail us back what they have received. This is good news. I don't know why they won't give the child support to my in laws who are foster parents to my step children. But they won't. I've spent time beating myself up over his twins not being able to come to us because of the mental break down right after our first custody court date which put us in significant debt to begin with, but I am taking it as a gift from deity if we can take that money and help our moving situation. I also found the letter from the state of Ohio that gives veterans a 1500 bonus from that state. They sent it to us months ago an hubs said he "lost" it. I found it and now just need to put in an envelope and hope its not too late. Have anything good to share?