My step son is 22 & very smart, went to college for 2 years, great grades the following year decided that college was not for him and dropped out...had a breakdown during the summer & doesn't want to get help, doesn't want to speak to anyone...he feels everyone is full of crap. He stayed leaving in the college town, has a job...plays his music which he loves. He spoke to his father last night & myself and tells us that he is a piece of junk that he feels that his life is just a circle. His way of thinking is very weird to us though, he always says that he doesn't want a life like ours (the routine) going to work everyday and doing the same thing everyday...we tell him that this is life...sometimes His way of thinking is messed up. He tells us that he doesn't know what to do with his life...we give him the best advise we can by telling him to go back to school, get a career and that eventually everything will fall into place. But as we are talking to us he is like mocking us & like doesn't want to hear it...we don't want to lose our patients, but it's hard sometimes. We tell him that not everyone knows what they want to do, but to take it a day at a time. His father is worried sick all the time, concerned that he may do something crazy. I feel that he probably is smoking pot & drinking. He doesn't want to live with us in our city because he states everyone is to materialistic. We are truly at a loss with him.