Son is in jail. Essentially he is the biggest Duper going. A con artist extraordinaire! Drug addict, con artist and possibly a true sociopath. The day he met me and begged to come home he used 2 foreign account cards stolen from my husband to make 3 withdrawals. All in all over 12/13 days he withdrew over $5,000 with 9 transactions. I woke around 1 am and for some reason I felt the need to search his back pack. I found weed, the bank cards and $700. I woke husband. Husband completely forgot about these cards that were in a file in the office. Husband does everything with these accounts on line. Clearly son had been routing through everything and anything. We woke him up and asked him to leave immediately. He acted out I called 911 he pushed me and grabbed my phone. He hung up. They sent a car anyway. He heard the siren and bolted. I suspected he went to new GFs house. Text threatening to kill himself and all other sorts of manipulative BS. Bcs of threat of suicide police had to continue search until they apprehended him. They brought in a few more cars and a canine unit. I gave them address of new girlfriend said her mom is a police officer as well. I felt in my gut that is where he was. Police said the knocked several times and called the girlfriend phone number, no answer. They then found moms name and contacted her. She was at work. She confirmed daughter was home. Police knocked again she still wouldn’t answer. Mom had to drive over to her house from work and unlock the door to her house. Son was there they arrested him. Took him for processing and sent him straight to jail. No holidng cell. I searched his room and found other items he had taken including a new wallet I had just bought myself. Remember he is 18 now no more youth court and now his youth file will not be automatically sealed once he is finished with his punishments for those crimes. We pressed charges. He is being charged with possession of MJ, breaching bail, 9 counts of theft and 2 counts of international fraud. Was in bail court today. John Howard Society are not offering bail program to him. Duty Cousel called me to ask us to post surity for his bail. NO NOT HAPPENING! Called numerous people so far no takers for his bail surety. I hope he doesn’t find anyone! I am in a state of mental chaos and I am physically ill. I feel like I am in a bad slow motion dream sequence and can’t wake myself up. Nothing feels real. I fluctuate from sheer panic and hysteria to anger that is so dark and raw the thoughts I have of my son are unspeakable. I do not want to see or speak to him because I know I will say things out of anger that I will regret. I would say I have no son and you are dead to me. You will never darken my door again! I feel that way now I truly do. If I was near him I would have a hard time refraining from hitting him; and once I started, I would have trouble stopping. Very dark thoughts. My husband is a very quiet and stoic person. He collapsed in a heap and wept so ferociously that it completely shattered my heart to see this. I can’t get the image out of my head. I have nothing else to say I have nothing left to give. Had an emergency meeting with therapist today. It helps but not much right now. this . I am done!