We have one week left. If she is going to follow thru, I want to have a celebratory gathering as a send off...but not if she's not going the next morning! My husband belongs to the American Legion, and is a Legion Rider, and he wanted to have the Legion Riders surprise her with a send off. They would ride motorcycles with flags up to our house... What a wonderful surprise it would be. What a bad one if she doesn't follow thru. Last week a friend gave us two tickets to Iluminate. They were finalists on Americans Got Talent this year. Kind of a dance, lights, music show. I had offered that our girls go together, as kind of their own girls night out. She said, sure, unless she "can't go". Uhh...what does that mean? Unless she could hang out with some friends at a dance bar 60 miles away. She always wants to go there...but her friends never follow thru... So, I told her I would just go with her sister and not be mad, but I wasn't going to wait until 6pm to find out if she was going at 7pm. Younger daughter and I had a nice time. I have texted her twice about a send off party...and she still hasn't responded except for "will talk you you later". I am not pushing her to go, or not go...as I know it will come back to bite me. Hate this... Ksm.