The weirdest thing happened when difficult child was driving difficult child to school one day this week. He asked husband why he didn't have any Black cousins. When husband reminded him of the fact that he didn't because he was adopted (something we have talked about tons) he looked totally surprised. About two weeks ago we increased his Topomax-could this be some of the cognitive dulling I've read about? I'm not necessarily surprised by the question but am surprised that husband said he looked surprised to know he was adopted. He often asks for his adoption story so I'm really confused here.