difficult child just went crazy with rage at easy child while I was at work. She said he picked up the computer to throw at her, yelled at her and threw her cell phone and hit her foot. This was all because she told him to turn the heat down. He goes off on the smallest things, he has no insurance and I have no insurance on him, so I cannot get him counselling, not that he would go. She is sure that he would have killed her had she not gone to her room and shut the door. Odd behavior afterwards, he was on his knees on his bed, crying and then cleaned his room and left. ( He never cleans his room) I think it is due to drug use, but all I know he takes is alcohol and Blunts ( which i believe is marijuanna) . He has always had rage/ anger problems. I am exhausted and cannot get him to change/stop or whatever, so I am going to tell him to go back to Chicago, live with his mom ( bio mom was cocaine addict and he was in foster care since 1 yr of age) I got him at 4 1/2. There is no where else for him to go, unless his aunt will take him. He can work in chicago, he dropped out of highschool and has no ged, but until he turns his life around, stopped using, there really is no hope for any of that. We are the bottom of the barrel here , when it comes to life skills for him.