The bug is back!!!!

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by timer lady, Aug 15, 2012.

  1. timer lady

    timer lady Queen of Hearts

    for those of you placing bets on how long it would take & you bet less than a month you win.

    Birth monster put kt on a plane this morning ~ sent her packing. I picked kt up from the airport this morning & took her to her 27 y/o BFs house. I laid down the law i.e. cannot ever live with me again. Cannot just show up at my door, she needs to call ahead.

    I'm doing very little for her in trying to regain her services.

    Yet another mess to clean up after the incubator. Let's see how long it takes to put wm on a plane with-o warning.
  2. TeDo

    TeDo Guest

    That's exactly what most of us figured would happen. Good for you for sticking to your guns. She blew it, not you, so she gets to try to put some of it back together. I am sooooooooo very proud of you!!

  3. SomewhereOutThere

    SomewhereOutThere Well-Known Member

    haha! I knew they'd both be back, but didn't think it would be THIS fast.

    Good for you for sticking to your guns!
  4. Steely

    Steely Active Member many hugs.
  5. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    Holy smokes.

    I'm grinning, though, at what your reaction was. Way To Go warrior mom!!!
  6. Calamity Jane

    Calamity Jane Well-Known Member

    I'm sure you're boiling mad right now...and it's well deserved for all they put you through. Just continue on the path toward reclaiming your life again, and don't let anyone mess that up for you. Sending understanding and caring hugs your way....
  7. DaisyFace

    DaisyFace Love me...Love me not

    Oh brother! What a merry-go-round this has been!

    What did kt say to you (if anything) about this misadventure???
  8. hearts and roses

    hearts and roses Mind Reader

    Wow, Linda, you are my hero! Big Giant Hugs to you - and a high five too!

    I hope kt figures some things out for herself. It must have been quite a blow to her for the incubator to send her packing.
  9. cubsgirl

    cubsgirl Well-Known Member

    Excellent job under the most difficult circumstances. ((hugs)) Keep taking care of YOU!!
  10. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    Ditto. Hugs. DDD
  11. rejectedmom

    rejectedmom New Member

    Good job at sticking to your guns. My difficult child keeps trying to get us to take him back...It ain't a gonna happen. It gets easier each time. (((HUGS))) -RM
  12. Estherfromjerusalem

    Estherfromjerusalem Well-Known Member

    Linda, I am in awe of you.

    Love, Esther
  13. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    Linda, you're simply an amazing person. I agree with Esther, I'm in awe of you.

    Rude awakenings come quickly usually. Just enough time for the honeymoon phase to wear off.

    Now KT must figure out how to move forward and regain the ground she's lost. Reality over daydreams is a tough thing to face and deal with but it can help her move forward in leaps and bounds if she truly learns the lessons.

    Where will wm go when she sends him next, and she will, of course. Will foster mom be willing to take him back?

  14. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Hugs, Linda. I'm in awe of you as well.
  15. bby31288

    bby31288 Active Member

    Count me in as in awe!! What the heck did incubator learn in one month? Hugs and strength!
  16. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    So proud of you for doing what you felt you could (ride from airport) and striking to your guns on what would not be allowed!!! Hopefully this ended ktbug's magical thinking about incubator and now she truly engages in therapy.
  17. 1905

    1905 Well-Known Member

    (((HUGS))) That is very sad, who even knows the crazy month she had. I must have missed something, she has Wm there with her too? ((((HUGS))))
  18. Wiped Out

    Wiped Out Well-Known Member Staff Member

    You. Are. Amazing.
    You. Are. My. Hero.
  19. witzend

    witzend Well-Known Member

    Honestly, it lasted longer than I thought. I hope that somehow KT will contact social services and get back on track. I think you are doing the right thing by sticking to your guns. You weren't going to rescue her before bio-monster poked her head in, and you shouldn't change that just because she came in and sidetracked KT. It would never work out for anyone.

    {{{{{{{{{Big hugs}}}}}}}}}}}

    I'm sure that there's no doubt that BM will broadcast that you ruined her children. There's nothing anyone can do about that. It's just as believable as that she was going to rescue them.
  20. pasajes4

    pasajes4 Well-Known Member

    Put her on a plane? I am suprised it was not a bus. Lucky girl!