I just found this site. I am 29 years old and have 3 wonderful little boys. Cayden is 7, Korbin is 4, and Camdyn is 6 months. Cayden is in 1st grade. He has not been diagnosed with anything, but my husband and I have had many meetings with the school "team". They are really pushing me to put him on medication, they feel that he has adhd and possibly some type of oppositional/conduct disorder. I have been a stay at home mom off and on since starting my family. When I did have an outside job I worked at a local high school working with mentally handicapped kids, managing a group home for behaviorally difficult teenagers, and working at a local hospital on the delivery floor. Today I got a phone call from the school saying that my son tried to choke another student so he was being placed on in-school suspension. I cried for 2 hours, I don't understand. My son is very loving and considerate at home. With two younger sibling, he is a great help. When Cayden is in trouble he is fast to tear up and say that it "breaks his heart" when he gets into trouble. This aggressive behavior has never happened at home. But it seems like he just can't contain himself at school. He is doing very well scholastically. I work with him daily on spelling words or reading. He has some of the top math skills in his grade level at his school. I know that he is trying really hard, he just can't seem to get it together. I am completely at a loss and don't know where to turn.