ok i have this friend i love her to death she is really a good person,but when i look at her and her kids and see how her oldest child is doing so well has manners and all the norm you expect from a child. then look at my situation i often fine myself not communicating with her because i feel she doesn't understand what i am going through she tells stories of her daughter excelling and i am quiet about my son about to be exspelled if i don't put him speacial ed! i often make sure that he is not doing anything to harm or hurt her daughter because she doesn'tunderstand that my son can help some things he say or do like when he tells her she is fat and needs to loose weight i feel bad feeling this way and i try to not , but that is the human side of me coming out has anyone else felt this way if so how did you handle it ? advice please!!!!!! need all the friends i can get to keep sainty and not flip out adult conversation at leadt one hour out of 24 in a day . the to top things off my grandmother having promblems with her car? and it is going to cost $close to 600 to get my car fixed then my husband might have to have sugery on his back iam praying not i am prayingthat things change quickly before i go nutts! going to by a bottle of red wine to relax that is what i choose to do on this cold friday!