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Well difficult child is ordered into secure residential where she cannot run. She will continue the DBT in the same place but with the residential component added. This is excellent!
Scary thing is... the judge ordered her into secure care (juvenile prison) until age 21, but stayed the order contingent on her performance in the DBT program. If she screws up once she is going away for a long time. He is tough and gave her no leeway. While we need this support, I'm scared because, she has never given us much reason to believe she would ever really stop her running and buy into healing.(18 months rehab. residential, years of therapy) This is it for her, he will put her away if she doesn't. I hope she gets that and is able to stabilize.
I hope she is scared, I'm still shaking 2 hours later, he scared the boots off of me.
Scary thing is... the judge ordered her into secure care (juvenile prison) until age 21, but stayed the order contingent on her performance in the DBT program. If she screws up once she is going away for a long time. He is tough and gave her no leeway. While we need this support, I'm scared because, she has never given us much reason to believe she would ever really stop her running and buy into healing.(18 months rehab. residential, years of therapy) This is it for her, he will put her away if she doesn't. I hope she gets that and is able to stabilize.
I hope she is scared, I'm still shaking 2 hours later, he scared the boots off of me.