When Goneboy went Gone, he was silent to ex for three years, but then ex called after Bart moved to Missouri. Ex is sort of afraid of being alone in the Chicago area and after Bart left, he has Princess, but she is not always available, and he also had Goneboy. Goneboy formed a weak relationship with him after he called. He has two kids that I don't consider my grandkids as I've never seen them, but ex saw them...selectively and on Goneboy's terms, mainly when he allows it, ex could visit his house, but he'd never bring anyone to ex's house. Ex doesn't like that. He prefers visits at his place. Lately Goneboy is blowing off ex. Ex inherited a lot of money from his mother when she passed. Ex is so disgusted with Goneboy, he has started the legal road to disinheriting Goneboy. All of us really loved Gonenboy and treated him with lots of love, but he is unable to give it back. I often wonder what kind of husband and father he is. I do know he is a workaholic and not home much. This is just another sad part of t he Goneboy story. Ex was very angry at being 100% snubbed for Christmas and because Goneboy didn't even answer his calls to go shopping with him for presents for his boys. Goneboy has gone missing. I feel very sorry for ex. Goneboy was his favorite. His obvious favoritism, and the other two bringing it up sadly, was but one reason I divorced him. I know how it is to be second or last to a Golden Child. I don't think ex really knew he was doing it either, because there wasn't even an attempt to hide it. Everyone knew it.Ex is not a mean person, but he is so socially clueless I wonder if he has aspergers. At any rate, he has finally given up on his Golden Child...and he is not a happy camper. He called me and we spoke. Iwonder if Goneboy will try to get back on his good side. Money is very important to him and I'm not sure he is content to be disinherited when his father has a lot. So the saga continues. Well, that's about it.