some of the truth at least (if not all) just came out. I had some money hidden in the house- it was all I have to pay bills on. He stole it- it could have been last weekend because that's the last time I went to it. He had taken it ALL and at first tried to lie about it until I told him THAT. WAS. IT. I HAD NO MORE MONEY. Then he gave it back- threw it on the floor at my feet. TG he hadn't spent all of it. I told him I had worked for that money. He said he had worked a lot, too, but had never gotten anything for it. I'll be taking the money from that check he got from Department of Juvenile Justice. That won't cover all he spent but it will be a chunk. If this was anyone except my kid....they would be arresting me. I'm so angry I am shaking. This came out because he just had to go walmart today so I made a list of things and went to get some money. After we had this scene, he said he didn't want to go to the store now. Yeah, I guess not. ETA after taking a few mins to aggressively scrub a pan in the kitchen (it's VERY clean now): I don't even know when he could have rumuaged thru the house enough to find this money. Now I'm catching his wrath. He told me to come on and let's go to the store. I told him I don't take orders from him. He thru gum wrappers on the floor and said F them when I told him to pick them up. He said it made no difference because if that's all the money we had then we were poor. I said it was his fault that was all we had and things had gotten to this point. He said then he would leave. He went out, came right back in.... now it's all changed again but I'll have to update later- it's better than it was at least.